What are the wishes of people in relationships today?
When we think of relationships right words come from passion, love, desire, and because no sex! The love and passion were the basic elements for a life together, having that feeling was enough that they really were "happily ever after," so where is the passion now and especially love?
To help answer this question was one about relationships, after all, think, believe and even assuming no quantitative data is easy, the difficulty is present by sampling the data obtained, this research sought to understand what people want in relationships today, in an attempt to demystify some myths that guide the company when the theme is relationships.
Research conducted with the collaboration of several people, they answered questionnaires with open and closed, the people of various religions, genders, ages, and especially regions. The main objective was to try to delineate a profile of an ideal relationship or goal; among one of the key figures that were observed in the survey is that sincerity is nowadays increasingly demanded, among many more try to deceive, betray and deceive mainly, people look for sincerity, sincere relationships they want.
The lie was something clearly mentioned in the survey, voluntarily, because to be honest walking as opposed to lie, also mentioned that the worst thing in a relationship or even an attitude would be unforgivable betrayal, sincerity, no lying and mostly without treason, after 80% of people believe that is an unforgivable act. Beyond smiles and humility, charisma, be affectionate and even humorous is important for a healthy relationship.
In examining the question of treason there is insecurity in society and at the same time their rigidity, given that among the data may be mentioned that 60% of people believe they have been betrayed ever, 95% of people mention that there forgive a betrayal, even believing that have already been betrayed. If they were sure they would not forgive this act of infidelity, it is now important to draw attention, even with alarming statistics of divorce, infidelity, people look for someone faithful allegiance to this to be achieved in physical and must be achieved in virtual space, once 83% believe that infidelity is virtual treason, as in physical contact. Almost all respondents can identify when the partner is lying; satisfaction in the category 84% of people would like to receive more praise or even present, in other words they want to receive recognition for their dedication in the relationship.
It was asking people if they believe that to begin a relationship just to have love, about 60% of people think that want to start a relationship you do not need love, more than half curiously not invest in a relationship beyond the feeling people were not a stable life, professionally stabilized and so on.
Ultimately people do not believe that love is eternal in a relationship, as mentioned in several books about relationships, people believe that the most important relationship is respect, because he is always accompanied by sincerity, loyalty and affection.

Marcos Tadeu Cardoso
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